Every sacrifice and self-sacrifice has a purpose, achievement, concern, love, care, empathy, compassion, responsibility, etc., but sometimes we let the lines blur knowing or unknowingly and open the gates to expectation, suffering, pain etc.
Have seen people and families suffer all in the name of sacrifice. As a society we have been doing this for generations, as we do this, we are teaching the next gen to do so too. Sacrifice and self-sacrifice are good and are needed, but why is how much not defined?
🌷Sacrifice is a part of our growing-up lives and should be. These sacrifices take us closer to our goals, achievements. But it takes no time for sacrifice to become competition, and competition to become greed(hunger is good, greed is dangerously blind) n Then there goes our work-life balance. Not telling you not to grow…reach the highest peak, but be aware of your sacrifice. Know when, what you should, what you can, what you cannot and should not sacrifice.
🌿Self -sacrifice, we all sacrifice as parents, spouses, siblings, friends, co-workers, children, and partners, but sometimes we forget to draw a line. That is when we give others the right to take us for granted.
🌻As a therapist ( bet so have you ) seen cases where parents sacrifice everything for a child, but the children very conveniently forget their responsibility towards their parents, spouses are treated as doormats for their sacrificing and giving nature, and some children think it is their parent’s duty to sacrifice and keep providing for them. Please sacrifice for your loved one, we all do…
🌺BUT, PLEASE KNOW HOW MUCH CAN YOU DO, ARE YOU BURNING YOURSELF TO BRIGHTEN UP ANOTHER PERSON’S LIFE OR HOW MUCH ARE YOU BURNING YOURSELF UP TO BRIGHTEN YOUR OWN LIFE OR PLEASE OTHERS? NO ONE BUT YOU GET BURNT BY THIS SACRIFICE OR THE SELF-SACRIFICE FIRE, YOU LIT.
🌸SACRIFICE OR SELF-SACRIFICE COMES WITH 3 TICK BOXES YES, NO AND BALANCE…THE FREE WILL IS ALWAYS YOURS.
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